Neurodivergent Parents
The perinatal period can bring some unique differences (and strengths) for neurodivergent parents
Carla is passionate about supporting neurodivergent parents throughout the perinatal period, including those who are Autistic and ADHD, because she understands that many of the experiences of neurodivergent parents in the perinatal period are misunderstood, missed, or pathologised, rather than supported. Whilst also recognising the strengths of neurodivergent parents in how they parent and connect with their baby.
The perinatal period is a time of significant changes and for many neurodivergent individuals, pregnancy, birth, and early parenting can intensify sensory sensitivities, emotional responses, executive functioning challenges, and the need for structure and predictability.
Unfortunately, these differences are often dismissed as “just part of becoming a parent” or misattributed to anxiety or mood changes alone, which may mean parents don’t receive support that is best for them.
Likewise, dads and non-birthing partners may also be navigating similar experiences, as all parents are adjusting to significant developmental, emotional, and relational changes.
Also, for many parents it is also possible that they have only recently come to recognise their neurodivergence.

It may be helpful to seek support from a perinatal psychologist, your GP, or another neuroaffirming health professional. Support can focus on understanding your unique needs, creating environments that feel safer and more predictable, and exploring your strengths. You are not alone in this.
